NO POINTING FINGERS

NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised
you for a successful marriage. Could you please
share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never
criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she
does something wrong. Always bear in mind that
because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she
could not find a better husband than
you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected.
Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally,
when a person makes a mistake, he would look around
to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is
the start of a war. We should always remember that
when we point one finger at a person, the other four
fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our
mistake too.