NO OVERPOWERING

NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to
overpower another,or demands too much. People in
love tend to think that love will conquer all and
their spouses will change the bad habits after
marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a
Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is
easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a
person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high
expectation on changing the spouse character will
cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and
lower our expectations..